How Can We Keep Ourselves Clean? ∙

How Can We Keep Ourselves Clean? ∙

How can a young person stay pure? By obeying your word. – Psalm 119:9

Psalms 119:10-11

I have tried hard to find you – don’t let me wander from your commands.

I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you.

Psalms 119:97-105

Oh, how I love your instructions! I think about them all day long.

Your commands make me wiser than my enemies, for they are my constant guide.

Yes, I have more insight than my teachers, for I am always thinking of your laws.

I am even wiser than my elders, for I have kept your commandments.

I have refused to walk on any evil path, so that I may remain obedient to your word.

I haven’t turned away from your regulations, for you have taught me well.

How sweet your words taste to me; they are sweeter than honey.

Your commandments give me understanding; no wonder I hate every false way of life.

Your word is a lamp to guide my feet and a light for my path.

What is The Cornerstone of Meaningful Relationships?

The foundation of meaningful relationships is commitment. At its core lies the desire to be both known and loved. Tim Keller expresses this truth so well: “To be loved but not known is comforting but superficial. To be known and not loved is our greatest fear. But to be fully known and truly loved is, well, a lot like being loved by God. It is what we need more than anything. It liberates us from pretense, humbles us out of our self-righteousness, and fortifies us for any difficulty life can throw at us.”

The Father’s perfect love for every child of the King is extraordinary and unmatched. Each of us is fully known and fully loved. His love isn’t naive, nor blindly cheerful and rose-colored. He knows every detail of who we are and everything we will ever think, feel, and do. Still, His love remains steadfast and unconditional.

His love frees us from shame, guilt, or the need to pretend. It humbles us in our weaknesses while encouraging and strengthening us to face life’s challenges.

Pause for a moment and reflect. We are fully known and fully loved by the One who intelligently designed and created us. This profound truth is revolutionary and transformative. It frees us to love Him completely, as the Apostle John declared in 1 John 4:19, “We love him, because he first loved us.”

Because of His love for us, we delightfully fall in love with Him! We are to strive to mirror the Father’s love for us as we love one another.

But there is more!

Loving the Word of God

As children of the King, we are called to make a meaningful and lasting commitment: devotion to the Word of God. Just as our love for the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ grows deeper, we can also develop a profound appreciation and love for the Scriptures. This connection with the Word not only deepens our relationship with the Father but also helps us understand His thoughts and feelings. God is no longer an abstract, distant figure. Instead, He becomes an accessible, knowable presence. Through the Scriptures, the Father reveals His delightful personality, character, and heart to us.

Charles Stanley understood that, to honor and delight the Father, we must fully engage with His Word. The Bible serves as a compass, warning us of potential pitfalls, guiding us toward God’s heart, and equipping us with the wisdom to navigate a challenging world.

The Power of Memorizing Scripture

How regrettable that so many children of the King have yet to unlock the life-changing impact of memorizing the Scriptures. Charles Stanley highlights this truth, stating, “When we lock portions of God’s Word in our mind, they remain available always to help and strengthen us in tough times.” By committing Scripture to memory, we internalize God’s eternal truths, creating a reservoir of wisdom and encouragement to draw upon in moments of hardship. This practice not only equips us with strength during life’s challenges but also fosters a deeper connection with God, as His Word becomes an ever-present source of guidance, comfort, and hope.

David’s Example: Treasuring the Word

David provides a clear and inspiring example of how to cultivate a deep love for God’s Word. His approach, though straightforward, demands intentionality and discipline. By treasuring God’s Word in his heart, David demonstrates his devotion to the Father, using Scripture as a safeguard against sin and a guide for obedience. He recognizes that God has graciously provided His Word as a source of guidance and sustenance, and he responds by setting his heart and mind on cherishing it.

In the Hebrew Bible, the word tsaphan carries rich and layered meanings that emphasize “the act of valuing, protecting, and cherishing something immensely precious of great importance.” Often translated as “hidden,” “treasured,” or “stored up.” The language draws on the familiar practice of hiding physical treasures, such as precious metals, documents, or special artifacts. The Dead Sea Scrolls are among the most famous examples of the practice of hiding valuables for preservation.

Tsaphan signifies not only physical concealment but also “a deliberate act of cherishing and safeguarding what is deeply treasured.” “Hiding,” or “treasuring,” came to represent the internal, spiritual act of protecting wisdom and divine teachings. Tsaphan illustrates how God’s Word should be honored, as “a treasure of immense worth that must be guarded and held close to the heart.” It conveys a“sense of reverence and care, recognizing the Word of God as a source of life, wisdom, and guidance that demands both protection and devotion.”

For David, this goes beyond simple respect for the Scriptures. For him, reading, memorizing, speaking, and singing God’s Word were a source of deep joy and delight. It is a priceless gift that must be protected, reflected upon, and valued highly, for it shows its unmatched importance in the life of a child of the King. For example, in Psalms 119:11, David declares, “I have hidden (tsaphan) your word in my heart that I might not sin against you.”

Here, tsaphan illustrates the “deliberate act of internalizing Scripture, treating it as a treasure so valuable that it must be stored securely within the heart.” This act of “hiding” is not about secrecy but about ensuring that God’s Word is always accessible, protected from neglect, and cherished.

Tragically, such wholehearted devotion to the Scriptures is becoming increasingly rare among children of the King today. Many only have a vague notion or recognition of what the actual verses of Scripture say and where they are found. This makes David’s example even more critical and relevant.

REFLECT & PRAY

If we walk in the light of God’s Word, we will not stumble in the darkness. The Word provides clarity, direction, and strength, enabling us to navigate life’s challenges with confidence and faith.

Father, continually encourage me to search Your Word and store it in my heart. May I treasure it always.

INSIGHT

The Word of God: A Light for Daily Living

The Father has graciously given us His Word to illuminate our path and guide us in daily life. Without regular engagement with Scripture, our spiritual perception becomes cloudy, and we risk drifting away from His best for us. As Charles Stanley observes, “Many Christians today have never experienced the power and encouragement available to them through memorizing Scripture. When we lock portions of God’s Word in our mind, they remain available always to help and strengthen us in tough times.”

Treasuring the Word in Our Hearts

Psalms 119:11 “I have hidden your word in my heart.” (NLT)
Psalms 119:11 “Your word I have treasured in my heart.” (NAS)

As the Believer’s Bible Commentary (BBC) aptly states, “The best book in the world is the Bible. The best place to put it is in the heart. The best reason for putting it there is that it saves us from sinning against God.”  

The Structure and Beauty of Psalms 119

Psalms 119, written by David, is the longest chapter in the Bible, containing 176 verses and 2,426 words. It is divided into 22 sections, each with eight verses. Why 22? The Hebrew alphabet has 22 letters, and each section corresponds to one letter. Every verse within a section starts with a Hebrew word that begins with the same letter. For example, the first section begins with Aleph, the second with Beth, and so on. This detailed structure shows the beauty and purposefulness of God’s Word.

God’s Word: A Searchlight in the Darkness

When left to our own devices, we often struggle to recognize the path that leads to life from the one that ends in destruction. As Stanley points out, “Left to ourselves, we often don’t know which way leads to life and which way ends in death; we remain in the dark. But God’s Word provides us with a searchlight to cut through the darkness and lead us to safety.” Scripture acts as a beacon, guiding us through the moral and spiritual challenges of life.

Overcoming Spiritual Pitfalls

For children of the King, the question is: How do we avoid the spiritual and moral dangers around us? How do we overcome the challenges we face, and how do we rebuild our relationship with the Father when we fail? The answer starts with understanding the vast difference between God’s ways and our own.

Isaiah 55:8-9 “My thoughts are nothing like your thoughts,” says the LORD. “And my ways are far beyond anything you could imagine. For just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so my ways are higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts.”

God’s thoughts and ways are infinitely higher than ours, yet He has made His wisdom and resources accessible to us through His Word. This divine communication is a gift, offering us the opportunity to align our lives with His perfect will.

The Transformational Power of God’s Word

David demonstrates how to cultivate a deep relationship with God through His Word. This journey starts with studying and contemplation of the Scriptures, going beyond simple reading. His dedication to meditating on and memorizing God’s precepts encourages a meaningful bond with a compassionate and majestic God who supports us in every situation.

The Word of God is dynamic; it is living, active, and transformative. David’s experience shows this as he grew a deep love for the Scriptures. His devotion reshaped him into a man after God’s own heart. Treasuring God’s Word in our hearts guides, strengthens, and changes us in incredible ways.

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Set Apart to Serve

Set Apart to Serve

I thank him who has given me strength, Christ Jesus our Lord, because he judged me faithful, appointing me to his service. – 1 Timothy 1:12

1 Timothy 1:12-16

I thank Christ Jesus our Lord, who has given me strength to do his work. He considered me trustworthy and appointed me to serve him, even though I used to blaspheme the name of Christ. In my insolence, I persecuted his people. But God had mercy on me because I did it in ignorance and unbelief.

Oh, how generous and gracious our Lord was! He filled me with the faith and love that come from Christ Jesus. This is a trustworthy saying, and everyone should accept it: ‘Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners’ – and I am the worst of them all.

But God had mercy on me so that Christ Jesus could use me as a prime example of his great patience with even the worst sinners. Then others will realize that they, too, can believe in him and receive eternal life.”

Lessons from Baseball: The Art of Choosing Teams

American baseball has long been more than a pastime; it has been a classroom for children, teaching valuable life lessons through its spoken and unspoken rules. One of the most enduring traditions is how players choose sides for a pickup game, a simple method that reflects fairness and balance.

In most neighborhoods, the hierarchy of talent is well-known, and the best players are widely recognized. Usually, the top two players are made team captains, responsible for selecting their teams. But how is it decided who gets the first pick? This is where an unspoken ritual involving a bat comes into play. A bat is tossed vertically, heavy end down, to one of the captains, who catches it with one hand. The other captain then places their fist directly above the first captain’s grip, and they alternate grasping the bat upward. Near the top, there is often not enough room for a full grip. The captain who manages the last complete hold wins the right to pick first.

Once the order is set, the captains take turns choosing players, starting with the third-best, then the fourth, and so on. This process helps keep teams fairly balanced in terms of skill. Even players with less talent, often seen as liabilities because of their limited hitting, fielding, or throwing abilities, are eventually picked and included in the game. Yet one unspoken rule remains: players do not choose themselves. The authority to pick team members rests solely with the captains.

This seemingly simple tradition teaches children more than just the mechanics of forming teams. It instills lessons about hierarchy, fairness, inclusion, and the importance of leadership, values that extend far beyond the baseball diamond.

Paul’s Perspective on Being Chosen

The apostle Paul had a deep awareness of what it meant to be chosen, understanding that it was not by his own achievements or merits but solely by the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ. He never considered the idea that he had chosen Christ; instead, looking back on his life, Paul viewed himself as undeserving, a once-proud, aggressive, and antagonistic opponent of the truth. He even referred to himself as a blasphemer of the very God he thought he was serving.

Barclay observes, it was as if, at the moment he was heading toward destruction, Jesus Christ had placed His hand upon Paul’s shoulder, halting him in his tracks. In that instant, when he was recklessly squandering his life, Christ intervened, bringing him to clarity.

Paul was astonished by the realization that a holy and righteous God could welcome and forgive a sinner like him. This profound understanding left him in awe, grappling with how he could be a recipient of such grace. Instead of facing divine wrath, he encountered unexpected mercy and love. As noted by Lea and Griffin, “[Paul] never moved beyond a response of wonder and gratitude for God’s act of salvation, accepting him ‘warts and all.’ We must remain anchored in the excitement and joy that our conversion brings.”

The Transforming Power of Grace

The grace and mercy of the Father abundantly overflowed Paul, erasing the significant sins of his past. Once a proud and determined individual, Paul found himself humbled and deeply remorseful for his previous life. Through introspection, he addressed his feelings of unworthiness and emerged with a profound sense of gratitude. His heart brimmed with praise and thankfulness as he recognized the Father’s forgiveness, trust, and selection of him for service. Paul understood that he had been chosen and empowered to fulfill the responsibilities entrusted to him.

The Response to Being Chosen

What is the natural response to such love and grace? Reconciliation, restoration, and redemption bring about a profound transformation. This renewal leads to a profound change within the human heart. Paul’s life stands as a powerful testament to the impact of the Father’s love, as he dedicated himself to the assignment entrusted to him.

REFLECT & PRAY

Because of love, the Lord Jesus Christ came into the world to save sinners from their sins, even the worst of them.

Father, I have only begun to grasp the magnitude of my sin. Open my eyes to see and fully understand the eternal separation from You that once loomed over me. Enable me to comprehend the incomprehensible. Your magnificent lovingkindness has made my scarlet sins whiter than snow.

INSIGHT

A Life Transformed by Grace

Paul became a man entirely devoted to the Father. His heart, once hardened, had been softened by the Father’s extraordinary grace, kindness, and mercy. Paul understood, perhaps more deeply than most, that despite his unworthiness, the Father had chosen him for a divine purpose.

Paul captured this profound truth in words that resonate through eternity. He writes in 1 Timothy 1:15-16,“It is a trustworthy saying, and everyone should accept it: ‘Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners’ – and I am the worst of them all. But God had mercy on me so that Christ Jesus could use me as a prime example of his great patience with even the worst sinners. Then others will realize that they, too, can believe in him and receive eternal life.”

Paul’s Ignorance and Transformation

Paul was a man of brilliance, highly educated and dedicated to his religious practices. However, his most significant flaw was his failure to recognize the true identity of the Lord Jesus Christ. This lack of understanding was not a justification for his actions but rather a testament to the spiritual darkness that had consumed his life. When Paul finally encountered the light, he fully grasped the depth of his sin and the magnitude of the grace extended to him.

As Moss explains, “The simple mention of the word ‘sinners’ causes Paul once again to reflect upon his own life. The term ‘worst’ is literally ‘first’ (protos). The term refers not to the sequence of Paul’s sin or conversion but to its magnitude. This may well seem to be an exaggeration to the reader, but for Paul, it is no exaggeration” (1 Corinthians 15:9-10; Galatians 1:13; Ephesians 3:8).

Paul’s most egregious sin was his fervent opposition to the work of God. As Constable notes, “His sin of aggressively tearing down the work that God was building up was the worst kind of sin.” Instead of allowing his past to hinder his progress, he transformed his despicable behavior into a catalyst for his unwavering commitment to service.

The Chief of Sinners: A Beacon of Hope

Paul’s acknowledgment of being the “chief of sinners” highlights the extraordinary, unearned, and unexpected nature of his salvation. His redemption serves as a powerful reminder that if grace can reach someone like Paul, then there is hope for everyone. His life demonstrates the infinite mercy of the Father and the transformative power of the gospel.

The Light That Shines in the Darkness

The Lord Jesus Christ is the true Light, illuminating the path for all who seek Him. As John writes, “In Him was life, and the life was the Light of men. The Light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not comprehend it” (John 1:4-5, 9).

Paul, who once dwelled in the shadows, a child of darkness, became a child of the Light. His life demonstrates the power of grace, the promise of redemption, and the unwavering truth that light persists even in the deepest darkness.

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© Dr. H 2026

Coming Full Circle – Sort Of ∙∙

Coming Full Circle – Sort Of ∙∙

I have let you see it with your eyes, but you will not cross over into it. – Deuteronomy 34:4

Hebrews 11:9-10

And even when he reached the land God promised him, he lived there by faith – for he was like a foreigner, living in tents. And so did Isaac and Jacob, who inherited the same promise. Abraham was confidently looking forward to a city with eternal foundations, a city designed and built by God.

Hebrews 11:13-16

All these people died still believing what God had promised them. They did not receive what was promised, but they saw it all from a distance and welcomed it. They agreed that they were foreigners and nomads here on earth.

If they had longed for the country they came from, they could have gone back. But they were looking for a better place, a heavenly homeland. That is why God is not ashamed to be called their God, for he has prepared a city for them.

Great Promises Offer Great Hope

Within months of the attack on Pearl Harbor on December 7, 1941, American forces in the Philippines faced defeat and captivity. It was a dark and dismal time. On March 11, 1942, General Douglas MacArthur boarded a PT boat under the cover of darkness, escaping a Japanese blockade to reach Australia. Before leaving, he made a confident and resolute promise: “I shall return.”

MacArthur kept his promise. Two and a half years later, in October 1944, American forces landed in Leyte, and the final victory over the Japanese-occupied Philippines was achieved at the Battle of Manila on March 3, 1945.

Promise made; promise kept

The Power of Promises

The Father has given us great and precious promises. Some of these promises will be fulfilled in this life, while others are reserved for eternity. Great promises inspire great hope. As children of the King, we are called to learn, believe, and rely on the Father’s promises. It is our choice to keep striving toward their fulfillment, trusting in His perfect timing.

As the apostle Peter explains in 2 Peter 1:4: “Because of his glory and excellence, he has given us great and precious promises. These are the promises that enable you to share his divine nature and escape the world’s corruption caused by human desires.”

What we seek and aspire to is often more meaningful than where we ultimately arrive. The promises of God are not just about results but about the transformation and hope they bring into our lives. They remind us of His divine nature and His ability to guide us through the challenges of this world.

The Pain of Unfulfilled Longing

Unfulfilled longing creates a fragile and painful emotional openness. It can manifest as a deep ache that is difficult to articulate, a place where dreams die, and hope seems to evaporate. In these moments, we are left unsatisfied, yearning for more. Yet, this longing can serve as a catalyst for transformation and a reaffirmation of our faith.

The Father uses these seasons to take His children through an extraordinary process often referred to as the “death of a vision.” When hopes and dreams are lost, coping can be incredibly difficult. Letting go is never easy, but it is through this process that the Father prepares us for what lies ahead.

Lessons in the Death of a Vision

The Father teaches us valuable lessons through the heartbreak of experiences He allows us to face. These lessons are often impossible to learn any other way. How we react to these challenging moments is vital. When we recognize and acknowledge His sovereign will and place our trust in His care, something remarkable happens. We unlock a deeper understanding of His purpose. This shift in perspective prompts us to reflect, fostering a deeper connection with our faith. We learn to ask, “What would You have Your servant do?”

The death of one vision often leads to the beginning of another. Sometimes it is a revival of the same vision, reimagined in a deeper, more meaningful way. Bill Gothard, in his Basic Youth Conflicts seminars, pointed out that throughout the Bible, God often requires visions to die before they can truly come to pass. The stories of people like Moses and Joseph demonstrate this pattern; both faced the death of their dreams before seeing them fulfilled. This reflects the divine method used with every child of the King.

 REFLECT & PRAY

“The sweetest thing in all my life has been the longing to reach the Mountain, to find the place where all beauty came from” (C. S. Lewis).

Father, there was a time when I had no hope at all. For a while, I had hope, but it faded, leaving me feeling empty and melancholic. However, through faith, You entered my life. That was exactly where You wanted me to be. You desired my confidence to rest in Who You are, so I could find the fulfillment that only You can provide.

INSIGHT

The Journey to the Promised Land: A Story of Faith and Fulfillment

After leaving Egypt, the Israelites reached the promised land that represented the fulfillment of their hopes and dreams. However, they hesitated and did not follow the Father’s guidance. As a result of their doubt and disobedience, the first generation of Israelites aged twenty and older died in the wilderness, except for Moses, Joshua, and Caleb. As Numbers 32:11-12 explains,

“Of all those I rescued from Egypt, no one who is twenty years old or older will ever see the land I swore to give to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, for they have not obeyed me wholeheartedly.

The only exceptions are Caleb, son of Jephunneh the Kenizzite, and Joshua, son of Nun, for they have wholeheartedly followed the LORD.”

The first generation of Israelites did not enter the Promised Land. In contrast, the subsequent generation, having been prepared by God, returned ready to obey, seize their inheritance, and take possession of it.

From Chaos to Fulfillment

The journey through the wilderness started in chaos, characterized by immoral behavior and the worship of the golden calf. Yet, it ultimately fulfilled the promise of the conquest of the Promised Land. During their wanderings, they were prepared to realize the Father’s promise. Although the route was somewhat circuitous, they were eventually guided to the promised land.

The transition from rebellion to readiness, coming full circle, is a central theme of redemption and transformation. It illustrates the Father’s commitment and ability to equip His people to carry out their assignments effectively.

The Cost of Unbelief and Disobedience

In Hebrews 2-4, unbelief and disobedience are closely intertwined. These chapters, often called the “Cemetery Chapters” of the New Testament, recount the tragic consequences of the Israelites’ lack of faith. As F. B. Meyer observed, “It is a repeated burden of those sad chapters of Hebrews, which tell the story of the wilderness wanderings . . . ‘they could not enter in because of unbelief.’ Because disobedience and unbelief are the two sides of the same coin, a coin of the devil’s mintage. They who disobey do not believe, and they who do not believe disobey.”

The Israelites’ struggle to trust and obey God underscores the profound spiritual repercussions of unbelief. This poignant lesson resonates down through the generations, reminding us of the importance of maintaining steadfast faith and commitment to obedience.

Moses: A Leader’s Legacy

Moses, the esteemed leader of the Israelites, was granted the privilege of seeing the Promised Land but was ultimately denied entry. This exclusion resulted from his impulsive actions at Kadesh, as noted in Numbers 20. Some may question whether this punishment was too harsh. Alexander Maclaren asserts, “Any offense of Moses cannot be a small offense,” emphasizing the great responsibility that comes with his leadership role. With great privilege comes equally significant accountability.

While the Father offers forgiveness for sin, Wiersbe notes that “God, in His government, allows our sins to work out their sad collateral damage in our lives.” Moses’ life vividly illustrates this truth; although he was forgiven, he still had to face the consequences of his choices.

Moses did not die of old age; instead, he remained strong and vigorous until his death, which occurred at the Father’s command after he completed his divine purpose. His life, spanning 120 years and comprising three distinct phases, was complete and meaningful. His passing marked the end of one era and the start of another, as the Father appointed Joshua to lead Israel into the Promised Land.

The Death of a Vision: A New Beginning

Many children of the King experience the death of their vision, a point at which their dreams and aspirations seem to fade, leaving a sense of hopelessness. However, this experience does not mark the end of their journey; instead, it signals the start of a new chapter. It is not the beginning of the end; it is the end of the beginning. The Father uses these critical moments to prepare His children for what lies ahead, shaping them for greater purposes.

Standing on the Father’s Promises

Every child of the King receives promises from the Father. We are called to stand firm, fully convinced that what the Father has promised, He will indeed fulfill (Romans 4:21). Like Abraham, who died having seen some but not all of the Father’s promises fulfilled, we too live in hopeful anticipation. The Father will fulfill all His promises, but the greatest of them await the life to come.

As Stanley reminds us, the Father’s faithfulness is unwavering. His promises are sure, and His plans are flawless. We are called to trust in Him, knowing that He will bring His promises to completion in His perfect time.

This longing, though painful, serves as a reminder of the hope and fulfillment that only the Father can provide. It is through faith that we accept His gracious gift of redemption and enter into a deep, personal bond with Him. In this bond, we find the strength to endure, the courage to hope, and the assurance that His promises will never fail.

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© Dr. H 2025

Depart From Me ∙∙∙

Depart From Me ∙∙∙

So why do you keep calling me “Lord, Lord!” when you don’t do what I say? –

Luke 6:46

Matthew 7:21-23

Not everyone who calls out to me, “Lord! Lord!” will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Only those who actually do the will of my Father in heaven will enter.

On judgment day, many will say to me, “Lord! Lord! We prophesied in your name and cast out demons in your name and performed many miracles in your name.”

But I will reply, “I never knew you. Depart from me, you who break God’s laws.”

The Illusion of Connection in the Digital Age

In our modern age, dominated by artificial intelligence and social media platforms like Google, Facebook, X, TikTok, Wikipedia, and constant news streaming, the distinction between genuinely knowing someone and merely having superficial knowledge of them can easily become obscured. Interacting with a Facebook profile, analyzing Xeets, or engaging with a post may create the illusion of connection, yet it falls short of fostering a true relationship.

Authentic relationships are reciprocal, requiring mutual awareness and active participation from both parties. You can’t form a real connection with someone who doesn’t know if you really exist. This is a basic principle that people instinctively understand.

Knowing About God vs. Knowing God

The challenge arises when this principle is ignored in our relationship with the Father. Many people mistakenly believe that being a good person is enough to gain entry into heaven. This belief often depends on actions such as performing good deeds, reading the Bible, attending religious services, or helping those in need. While these practices are commendable, they raise an important question: What does it mean to be “good enough”? How do we measure or quantify goodness?

The Lord Jesus Christ addresses these assumptions head-on through His teachings, which are intentionally provocative and encourage us to examine our beliefs and conclusions. He calls us to go beyond simply knowing about Him and to pursue a real, personal relationship with Him. Without this connection, He does not truly know us.

The Weight of True Relationship

The implications of this truth are both profound and unsettling, prompting a crucial self-reflection: “Do I truly know the Lord Jesus Christ, or am I simply know about Him?” In other words, one might ask, “Have I believed in the concept of God without entering into a genuine relationship with the living God?”

This distinction is critical. Merely possessing knowledge about God, gained through the Scriptures, religious practices, or acts of goodwill, differs fundamentally from having a personal and reciprocal relationship with Him. Authentic faith is characterized by a deep connection with the Father, one that fundamentally alters how we engage with Him and live our lives.

James 1:22 reminds us, “Don’t just listen to God’s word. You must do what it says. Otherwise, you are only fooling yourselves.” This verse underscores the importance of active, willing obedience as evidence of a true relationship with God.

REFLECT & PRAY

Charles Stanley explains, “Willing and eager obedience is the hallmark of someone who has truly come to faith in Jesus Christ. They obey, not because they want to earn God’s favor, but because they feel delighted already to have received it.” This obedience flows naturally from a heart transformed by grace. It is about responding to the love and favor already given by the Father.

Father, thank You for revealing that You are perfect in Your holiness while I am not. Thank You for inviting me into a personal relationship with You.

INSIGHT

The Prerequisites for Heaven

What does it take to get into heaven? The Lord Jesus Christ has made it abundantly clear what it does not require. It is not about outward displays of religion or impressive spiritual acts. Instead, He highlights that a personal relationship with Him is the key. Through faith, we accept His gracious gift of redemption and enter into a deep, personal relationship with Him.

Matthew 7:21-23 states: “Not everyone who calls out to me, ‘Lord! Lord!’ will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Only those who actually do the will of my Father in heaven will enter. On judgment day, many will say to me, ‘Lord! Lord! We prophesied in your name and cast out demons in your name and performed many miracles in your name.’ But I will reply, ‘I never knew you. Depart from me, you who break God’s laws.’”

This passage exposes a sobering reality: many individuals who claim to be committed to Christ may not truly be His disciples. While they might profess their faith, refer to Him as Lord, and even undertake remarkable acts in His name, such as prophesying, casting out demons, and working wonders. Yet, the Lord Jesus Christ’s response is both shocking and perplexing. He declares that He does not know them.

A Modern Analogy: The Force vs. The Father

Explore the spiritual themes intricately woven into George Lucas’ Star Wars franchise. This iconic saga intentionally incorporates elements of spirituality, sparking discussions about the divine and the supernatural. Notably absent, however, is the God of the Bible. Instead, we encounter The Force, a pantheistic, all-encompassing energy accessible to those who can tap into it.

The Force enhances the qualities of those who are inherently virtuous, but it also has a dark side. This duality reflects the biblical struggle between good and evil, morality and immorality, selflessness and selfishness, and the tension between the desire to serve others and the ambition to exert control and oppression.

In contrast, the biblical depiction of God presents a being who is pure, holy, righteous, and good. As articulated in 1 John 1:5, “God is light, and there is no darkness in him at all.” Conversely, the adversary, the primary antagonist in the spiritual narrative of the Scriptures, is entirely evil, marked by pride and destruction. He embodies darkness and possesses no light whatsoever.

The Spiritual Battle

Humanity is caught in a spiritual battle. Each of us belongs to one of two camps: we are either children of the light or children of the darkness.

1 Thessalonians 5:5 reminds us, “For you are all children of the light and of the day; we don’t belong to darkness and night.” Conversely, Ephesians 2:2 describes the children of darkness as those who follow “the spirit that is at work in the hearts of those who refuse to obey God.”

Children of the King are empowered by the Holy Spirit, as seen in 1 Corinthians 2:3-4. In contrast, children of darkness are somehow enabled to perform supernatural acts through the power of the enemy. 2 Thessalonians 2:9 warns that the antichrist will “do the work of Satan with counterfeit power and signs and miracles.”

Even Satan himself is a master of deception. 2 Corinthians 11:14-15 states, “But I am not surprised! Even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light. So it is no wonder that his servants also disguise themselves as servants of righteousness.”

The Pseudo-Followers

The pseudo-followers of the Lord Jesus Christ present their credentials, genuinely believing they are His disciples. They are shocked when He denies any relationship with them, saying, “I never knew you” (Matthew 7:23). This denial underscores the importance of a genuine, personal relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ.

Each child of the King is called evaluate their heart and verify that their faith is authentic. 2 Corinthians 13:5 urges, “Examine yourselves to see if your faith is genuine. Test yourselves. Indeed, you know that Jesus Christ is among you; if not, you have failed the test of true faith.”

A Call to Self-Examination

If your life does not reflect the character of a child of the King, if you do not strive to follow His commandments and fulfill His will, then it is worth questioning whether you truly belong to Him. Matthew 7:21 reminds us, “Only those who actually do the will of my Father in heaven will enter.”

This is not about perfection but about relationship. Do you truly know the Lord Jesus Christ? Does He know you? Whose servant are you, really? This is the ultimate question that each of us must answer.

Gratitude for Relationship

The true essence and beauty of a relationship with God is its deeply personal nature. It goes beyond the expectations of perfection and performance, emphasizing instead the intimate bond of knowing and being known by the One who epitomizes perfect holiness.

This relationship serves as the cornerstone of authentic faith, offering not only eternal security but also the daily comfort of experiencing God’s unwavering presence and love.

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©Dr. H 2026

The Father’s Watchful Care ∙∙

The Father’s Watchful Care ∙∙

He will call on me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble, I will deliver him and honor him. – Psalms 91:15

Psalms 91:1-6

Those who live in the shelter of the Most High will find rest in the shadow of the Almighty. This I declare about the LORD: He alone is my refuge, my place of safety; he is my God, and I trust him.

For he will rescue you from every trap and protect you from deadly disease. He will cover you with his feathers. He will shelter you with his wings. His faithful promises are your armor and protection.

Do not be afraid of the terrors of the night, nor the arrow that flies in the day. Do not dread the disease that stalks in darkness, nor the disaster that strikes at midday.

The Emotional Weight of Abandonment

Abandonment is a profoundly personal and distressing emotional state, marked by feelings of being undesired, left behind, insecure, or discarded. For those who experience it, abandonment often brings a deep sense of loss, as a vital source of support or connection is suddenly severed or withdrawn. This emotional rupture frequently carries a powerful, unspoken message to the affected individual: “You are not valuable,” “You are not important,” or “You are not worth my time and energy.”

If these feelings of rejection are left unresolved, they can spiral into a cycle of self-doubt, eroding one’s sense of self-worth and leading to shame. The emotional toll of abandonment often isn’t merely a momentary, painful sensation. Instead, it can leave lasting scars that affect how people view themselves and their relationships with others over time.

The Impact of Chronic Abandonment

While occasional feelings of being unsupported or excluded are sadly part of life in a flawed world, the impact of chronic or repeated abandonment is far more harmful. When abandonment happens frequently, it can inundate individuals with lasting heartache, deep sadness, and an overwhelming sense of loss.

Over time, the emotional toll of abandonment may cause feelings to numb as people try to shield themselves from more pain. If these wounds remain unaddressed, emotional detachment can turn into insensitivity or even self-destructive behaviors, as the weight of rejection becomes too much to bear. A common result of chronic abandonment is the development of a pervasive fear that those we depend on most will leave us in our time of need. This fear can start a cycle of insecurity that makes relationships even more complicated.

Abandonment causes

Abandonment is more than a fleeting feeling of being left out; it is a deeply rooted emotional experience that can significantly impact a person’s mental and emotional well-being. Whether it happens as a one-time event or as a recurring pattern, abandonment causes individuals to struggle with feelings of rejection, insecurity, and loss.

Recognizing our issues with abandonment is the first step toward healing and renewal. The Father offers a remarkable healing balm to every child of the King, His presence.

God’s Faithful Presence

The Father watches over the children of the King with constant love and care. Although His presence isn’t visible to our physical eyes, faith is confidence in things hoped for, the certainty of things not seen (Hebrews 11:1). He is always “there,” watching out for us and providing a deep sense of safety and security.

Psalms 33:18 reminds us, “The LORD takes notice of those who rely upon him, those who wait for him to demonstrate his faithfulness.”

As children of the King, we are deeply loved. His heart and attention are always with us, giving us a steady source of comfort and reassurance. Instead of letting feelings of distance or abandonment from others weaken us, we can find confidence in knowing that the Creator of the universe is present and values us greatly.

Christ’s Empathy

The Lord Jesus Christ truly understands the pain of abandonment. He faced rejection and abuse that far surpass what most of us can imagine. Because of this, He is uniquely qualified to support us during our moments of separation and loss.

Isaiah 53:3 describes His suffering: “He was despised, rejected, forsaken, a man of sorrows, acquainted with deepest grief. We turned our backs on him and looked away. He was despised, and we did not care.”

Christ’s experience with rejection enables Him to empathize with our struggles. As Hebrews 4:15 affirms, “For we do not have a high priest incapable of sympathizing with our weaknesses, but one who has been tempted in every way just as we are, yet without sin.” His empathy is sincere and personal, not distant or theoretical; it is grounded in His own lived experience of sorrow and rejection.

REFLECT & PRAY

The Father’s presence remains constant and close. During prayer, we link our needs with God’s abundant supply. We share our emptiness with His fullness, trusting Him to satisfy and support us. As Charles Stanley notes, “Our deficits are no match for His abundance, and our cries find a home in His ears.”

Father, thank You for the confidence and certainty You provide, as we are constantly under Your watchful care.

INSIGHT

The Father’s Protection in Life’s Darkest Valleys

The care and protection offered by the Father are profoundly illustrated in the Psalms through rich metaphorical language that highlights His role as a “refuge” and “stronghold.” Terms like “shelter,” “shadow,”“refuge,” and “fortress” create vivid imagery. The first two expressions evoke the “tender picture of a bird protecting its young beneath its wings,” as noted in Psalms 91:4, 17:8, 36:7, 57:1, and 63:7. In contrast, the words “refuge” and “fortress” evoke the “strength and security associated with a military stronghold,” as referenced in Psalms 18:2 and 61:3.

Like a bird caring for its young, offering tenderness, closeness, and comfort, He is a warm, protective shelter. Further, he is like a military fortress providing unwavering security and protection.

In Psalms 91, the Lord is depicted as a “deliverer, protector, and source of encouragement for His children.” The ultimate security of every child of the King rests solely in Him. The titles used for God in this Psalm underscore His unparalleled capacity to safeguard His people. He is referred to as “The Most High” (Elyon), emphasizing “His sovereignty as the supreme ruler,” and “The Almighty” (Shaddai),which highlights“His omnipotence.”

As children of the King, we can confidently trust Him as our refuge, fortress, and safe haven. Our King is not only powerful and reliable but also kind, compassionate, and trustworthy.

The Enemy’s Misuse of Scripture

In the New Testament, the enemy demonstrates an in-depth understanding of the Scriptures by twisting and misapplying them in an effort to tempt the Lord Jesus Christ. During the temptation in the wilderness, he misquotes and distorts Psalms 91 in an effort to provoke Jesus into testing God’s promise of protection. He challenges Jesus to jump from the temple’s pinnacle, asserting that angels will come to His aid.

The Enemy’s Misuse of Scriptureaffirms: “For He will give His angels charge concerning you, to guard you in all your ways. They will bear you up in their hands, that you do not strike your foot against a stone.”

The enemy ingeniously twists this passage, encouraging Jesus to act recklessly under the pretense of relying on divine protection. In contrast, Jesus responds decisively, effectively countering the enemy’s misrepresentation of Scripture.

Matthew 4:7 records Jesus’ reply: “The Scriptures also say, ‘You must not test the LORD your God.’”

Resisting Temptation

The Lord Jesus Christ’s reply is both terse and resolute. By quoting Scripture in the face of temptation, he successfully resists the devil’s influence while reaffirming a correct understanding of God’s promises. This encounter highlights the importance of having a deep and accurate knowledge of Scripture, which empowers the children of the King to confront and overcome deceptive temptations.

Despite being rebuffed, the enemy does not give up easily. He swiftly moves on to another temptation, demonstrating the relentless nature of his enticements. Therefore, we must remain vigilant, as the enemy’s attempts to lead us astray are persistent and unwavering.

Trusting in the Father’s Care

The Father’s protection serves as a remarkable source of security for His children, embodying both a nurturing refuge and a steadfast fortress. It offers safety and encouragement during life’s most challenging times. Despite the adversary’s attempts to manipulate Scripture and instill doubt, the example set by Jesus inspires us to stay committed to the accurate, precise interpretation of the word of God. We are encouraged to draw upon its wisdom to resist temptation and remain resilient in our faith.

In the face of ongoing challenges, we can find comfort in knowing that our King is sovereign, powerful, and always faithful. His watchful care continually reminds us of His love and commitment to us. This assurance encourages us to confront feelings of emotional abandonment with confidence. His faithfulness reminds us that, no matter others’ failures, we are never truly alone.

Trusting in the Father’s Care

Amid a world filled with abandonment and rejection, the unwavering presence of God becomes a beacon of hope and inner healing. His lovingkindness, continuous care, and deep understanding of our struggles demonstrate His active interest, involvement, and concern. Through His empathy, we are empowered to transcend feelings of isolation and embrace the truth of His enduring love.

You do not have to traverse life’s darkest valleys alone. Trusting in the Father’s protection does not eliminate hardships, but it ensures that you will never face those challenges without a shield.

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© Dr. H 2025